heavysigh I will add my 2 cents. I am not the most qualified to respond and will be interested in what others may say, but, I am buying digital myself for the FIRST time so my apprehension was rather accute and so was my research on it.
As it happens I landed on the 20D only because it was equal to the 1D MKII in noise levels with the same (+-) pixel count, which renders the same print size and quality. The other consideration which wieghed heavily was the 20D FOV crop of 1.6x. I shoot 90% wildlife and when buying telephoto's can save you LOTS of money (better glass rather than cheaper which will render a bigger differance in picture quality than the differance between the two camers) over the 1.3x of the MKII and keep you using 1.4x when necessary rather than 2x with it's resolution issues. 5 frames a sec. is plenty for me and while not the tank the MKII is, it is well made.
The 350XT just fell a little short for me,
1) having a plastic body
2) (not the same) pixel count or noise spec
3) 3 frames per sec. (not fast enough)
For what it's worth my best freind of 36 years recently upgraded from the D60 to the 20D and loves it.
Michael says he has changed his review criterion but I suspect there just wasn't much to say about the 350 rather than it's a nice point and shoot upgrade.