2. Learn how to use Adobe Photoshop.
3. Get the Convert To B&W Pro plugin from thimagingfactory.com. You start with a color image, specify a lens filter (you have total control over color and density) film response, (there is a setting for T-Max and several other films, but you can make your own film response curve with the 6-band color EQ) and paper contrast. You can also adjust the negative exposure and print exposure. The bottom line is you can achieve any B&W look you want by changing the settings of the converter, including filters and films that do not exist in the film world. Here is an example:

Ten years from now, film will be to photography what horses are to transportation. Learning the power of digital now will increase your artistic flexibility (any darkroom technique can be done digitally, but not all digital techniques can be duplicated in the darkroom) and the marketability of your photographic skills.